Monday 19 May 2008

Wednesday 14 May 2008

Bank Holdiay Monday

We took the children down to Muncaster Castle for the day today. The weather was lovely, and we were almost organised, so we got out of the house just before noon. Once we got there, Chrissy checked out an electric buggy to save her legs, and we started off with a picnic lunch on the lawns, then decided that we would head up to the bluebell woods, come back via the wildflower meadow then finish with the owl center.
The bluebell woods were gorgeous - if there was another plant there other than the bluebells and the trees it was completely hidden. I always thought it was a cliche, but the wood was genuinly carpetted with bluebells. The children liked it too, and Chrissy got a bonus adventure out of driving the electric buggy back along a path that was definately not disabled-accessible!


After that, we did the Meadowvole Maze, then headed back for the owls. By this time, I was pretty exhausted, so we stopped at the stableyard for a short break. Chrissy and the children went round the shops while I had a rest (and a slice of cake) to restore my flagging energy.


After that, I took the children around the owls while Chrissy took a look at the garden center, a division of labour that made everyone happy. David was very enthusiastic - "look Daddy, another owl!" especially after we ran into one of the staff who was going round with a bucket of mice and a bucket of chicks, loading up the feeding areas in each cage. After I had told David what was going at each cage for a while ("The man is putting food in the aviaries for the owls."), David went up to him at the next cage and said "Man, what are you doing?"
For the most part, the owls don't feed immediatly, prefering to wait until they are unobserved, but in the hawk owl aviary, the two adults have just raised six chicks and none of them were willing to wait, so the children got a wonderful view of the two adults divvying up the chicks, and in one case, dismembering it and feeding it to one of the fledgling.

All in all, it was a great family day out.

Ruth's Birthday Party

Thanks to the timing of Easter and our weekend in Scotland, we weren't able to organise Ruth's birthday party for the actual day so we had a small family party on the day, and threw the big party a couple of weeks later. We had the party down at Seascale Sports Hall, with the bouncy castle and all the softplay stuff out. It was a fancy dress party so Ruth (and most of the other girls) were in various princess costumes, while the boys included skeletons, pirates, superheroes and Scooby Doo. Chrissy and Claire did face-painting, and the afternoon was rounded off by a nice simple party tea .

Sunday 4 May 2008

Where now?

Since I last posted, we've had a number of talks, fights, and even one heart-to-heart!
Now we need to be moving forward, but tonight's conversations have left me feeling that we are not moving towards the same goals. That's a little uncertain, as Chrissy wouldn't tell me what here goals are, but it leaves me wondering what is actually possible.